Staircase to heaven.

People always ask me, what do you mean by THE ONE? who is THE ONE? does such a ONE exist?  Furthermore, there's people that question the butterfly effect, and there are people that have lost faith in love existing.  I thought that I would take today's post in developing a set of systems in uncovering the one and what they would mean to you.

So, let's start with the basics. What do I mean when I refer to "the one"? Well basically, what it means is the one person that I can see myself spending the rest of my life with.  This individual will be someone who when you first meet, you feel an instant connection to them.  They will make you feel complete, they are the lifetime partner, the one who shares in your passions, your failings, your joys, your success, your sadness. The One is here to share your journey, through all of its detours, and to support your decisions as you mature into the potential that you possess within you.  When you meet the One, you don't need to ask yourself is this it? It will be an instinctual response, it will be reflected so deep in your core that your primal instincts will tell you that this is the end of your search.

The search however, is not easy.  Over the years, our personalities will evolve.  Our needs, wants, goals and challenges will shape our personality as life progresses.  The one that evolves in sync with us, the one that compliments us on our journey all the way is who we belong with.  Why do people have relationships that last for some time then, you ask? Well, think about it this way.  Every human life is an oscillating radio wave.  At some point in time, the waves meet and they travel together in harmony for some time.  At any given point in time there will be a soul that compliments yours for some short time but can it last? The one that withstands the test of time is the one for you.


How do I find the one then? Well, as humans we are genetically encoded to find the one.  Within each of us we have a deepseated magnetic impulse, drawing us closer and closer to who this person is.  You may meet them tomorrow, you may meet them in twenty years, or you may have met them already.  Life is all about not resisting these urges, and letting go, as the magnetic pull will do the work.  Just go along with what feels right.  If you've met someone, it doesnt matter whether you the male or female, but if it feels right, go for it! ask how they feel! because if you don't, you may never know, and it will just be a detour on your way to the one.


BUT at the end of the day, you cannot force things.  The Butterfly Effect is law.  Each little thing you do will lead you to the one, all you have to do is trust in yourself to make the right decisions.  One step at a time, you move towards your goal, just like climbing a staircase.  At the end of the day, it is not up to you to look for the one.  The butterfly effect will guide you, the magnetic attraction will lead you.  Live your life free, embrace the moment that is now.  Be open and happy, ground yourself to your passions, believe in yourself to achieve.  Searching for the one should not be your life's goal, rather, discovering yourself and who you truly are, now that's what living is about.


Trevz.